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The big relationship question for many is “How do I have a loving and lasting relationship?”

It’s a simple question, but with an answer that rocks the foundation of our soul. Let’s frame the question differently with this saying, “If you want a King, be a Queen.” This works the same for men, and goes like this – “If you want a Queen, be a King.” The point is the answer is not with the other person. The answer is within you and what you choose to be.

We are trained from birth to to care about what others think and feel about us. We are taught to seek answers to our deepest questions and the issues we face outside ourselves. We learn to seek help from friends, associates, or professionals. Bottom line, does the advice we get from others work? No, it does not work. Why not? Because it can’t. There is simply no way another person can give you answers to your deepest questions and issues because there is no way for them to 1) truly know what your inner questions and issues are, or what they mean to you; and 2) they can’t have any answers that are going to be right just for you. Think about it, how can someone else, anyone else, know you the way you do. Ask yourself, can you know someone else better or as well as they know themselves? No. You can’t.

So, if you are the only one that can answer your question “How do I have a loving and lasting relationship?”, then the next big question to answer before you can have that relationship is “How do I answer my own questions about myself?” The answer to that question is to take a journey of self-discovery where you ask the deep questions about yourself, and learn the answers for yourself to become truly free and self-aware. When you are self-aware, when you know yourself and have skill managing your personal freedom, then you can be your best self. Then, when you are your best self, when you’ve learned to love yourself, you are able to truly love someone else.

We can’t get different results by doing the same things. It’s time to learn new things, do different things, so you can be your best. The book “Freedom. Choice. Power. – A guide to living free.” presents clear and easy to understand concepts and perspectives to help you discover and unlock your personal freedom. Learn about your core beliefs, and know what takes your freedom away. Understand the limitless source of your personal power. Direct, engaging and powerful, the book helps you on your personal journey of self-discovery with wisdom for living that’s easy understand and use. Wisdom for all.

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